Did you get into trouble because of the change in your decision?
It is time to stop this habit. While respecting others point of view is important, you should not forget to respect your own point of view.
Change your decision only if you find others suggestion superior to yours.
However, this evaluation process while changing a decision, is not easy.
Here are a few tips for you:
- Think and weigh
- Check whether the suggestion matches your values
- Clarify all your values as a pre-work or pre-decisions exercise
- Have confidence in your ability to make correct decisions
- Remind yourself always that only you know your entire context and situation
- Look back at your decisions and learn
- Avoid making the same wrong decision again and again
Use these tips and you will breathe easy and live a stress free life.